Language of Lust Review (2023 Update): Is It Worth Buying? Read This Review Before You Buy Language of Lust.
The Language of Lust is a system that uses sex psychology, neuroscience, Tantra, NLP, and hypnosis to help men connect with women in a unique way.
It helps you get in touch with your true sexual potential and what women really want sexually. It breaks down sexual barriers between you and women and sets you apart from other men by letting you connect with women on a deeply sexual level that most men can’t do.
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The Creator – Lawrence Lanoff
Lawrence Lanoff’s background and set of experiences are one of a kind. Since he was 12, thanks to his new age mom, he has been studying Tantra. He has worked for Playboy for many years as a photographer, writer, and film director, and he has a PhD in cognitive studies. He has been what he calls a “streetwise sex life coach” for almost a decade, with the goal of making both men and women feel more sexually free and satisfied (learn more about Lanoff in our profile of him).
Lanoff worked with Michael Fiore on The Language of Lust project so that his work could be seen by more people (Michael Fiore has a very large student following and many popular programs). So Language of Lust is a course from Michael’s company, Digital Romance Inc.
How Does The Language of Lust Work?
There are a few different ways that this course trains you. You learn and work on several levels that are important for self-improvement, getting women, and developing your sexuality.
How to Rewire Your Mind (to Connect with Your and Her Sexuality)
Your mind is the first of these layers. This includes your conscious and unconscious beliefs about yourself, your sexuality, and the sexuality of other women. Lanoff uses techniques from neuroscience, NLP, hypnosis, and meditation, among other things, to help you reset and rewire these beliefs and mindsets so that they work better.
This will not change your mind in a day and will require you to do some exercises. Instead, it’s something you do over time, and it changes you slowly. When you first watch the trainings, you might have a big realization. This is especially true for people who aren’t as sexually open or experienced.
To put this in perspective, I’ve slept with more than 100 women, been in many very intense sexual relationships, and been open about my sexuality for a long time. But if I work on the exercises over time, I’m sure I’ll get something out of them. I didn’t have any big realizations or bumps at first, but I did have some smaller ones. I’ve changed some of the ways I look at things, which will change how I interact with women in the future.
The point of this is to force your mind to reflect the truth about our and women’s sexuality and to get rid of the wrong social programming we all have. It’s a key part of getting to know women on a deep sexual level, not just on the surface.
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How to Connect with Women (on a Deep Sexual Level)
The second thing you learn from The Language of Lust is how to act around women (on a sexual level). This builds on the idea of rewiring your brain and makes it more useful.
It takes the new beliefs and ways of thinking it has given you and shows you how they attract women and help you understand what their real sexual needs are.
A big part of the course will teach you how to talk to women in a way that brings out their true sexuality. Ninety-five percent (95%) of women are very shy about telling people what they really want and need, and many of them also find it hard to recognize these things in themselves because of the way society is set up today. The tools you’re given are meant to help you make women feel more comfortable talking about, recognizing, and exploring their true needs and wants.
It also tells you how to talk to women in a way that lets them say what they want and makes them feel comfortable doing so. So, the course teaches you a lot of important rules that you need to follow and make a part of your life if you want to be a guy that women feel comfortable with sexually and will tell you what they really want.
Doing It: Tools and Techniques to Get You Talking and Using the System
A lot of this course is about how to talk to people, what to say, and how to say it. The focus is on conversations that are more personal or deep. Some of this will help you understand women better, and a lot of it will help you lead them.
The course is called “The Language of Lust,” which is a great name because 70% of the course is about language and how to talk about your sexuality and show that you understand what she wants sexually.
There are many nuances in the language and examples. As you might expect, relating to women on a more sexual level and bringing up deeper topics can lead to awkward situations or even make you look a little creepy if you don’t do it right.
As I went through the first modules, this really did worry me. I could see guys with less sexual and social experience getting in trouble if they used the material in a way that wasn’t calibrated.
As you go through the course, Lanoff helps you fine-tune so you know what kinds of problems could lead to these bad things. So, as I went through the course, I became less worried about it. But I still think guys need to know how to talk to girls and be attractive to avoid these situations (see further down for specifics)
In this section, the training and tools for communication are mostly based on neuroscience. They work because they are based on ideas from neuroscience. Lanoff’s experience is also just a good part of it. He often tells you stories about how he learned what not to do or what works best in communication.
Men should go through the whole course before using it. This will give them a complete background and help them get the most out of it when they go back and study again. There is a lot of information in the course, and like most things, you’ll understand it better and in more depth once you’ve used it. So, going over things again after you’ve practiced will help you see things you missed the first time.
The course covers how to talk to a woman when you’re just getting to know her. The main goal is to help you connect with her true sexual desires and attract her on a deeper level. This kind of attraction will set you apart from men much more clearly, and it’s also an important part of keeping a relationship alive and keeping the attraction between two people alive. This is different from conversational techniques that create attraction, which are fine and good for keeping the right energy in the short term, but aren’t a permanent solution when it comes to attraction.
Then it talks about how people talk to each other during sex, both verbally and physically, as well as how people connect mentally during sex. The training in this course will change the way you have sex. It’s about intimacy, and it could make women sexually obsessed with you for the right reasons because the sex is so damn good for them.
There are many examples, alternatives, models of what to say, and so on, in the course. This was very important, and it’s one of the main reasons why this course got a good rating for “Ease of implementation,” even though it was about a hard topic. The templates and examples from Lanoff will get you started in the right direction and make all the difference. Once you’re used to the system, you’ll get more out of it if you move away from his templates and try out different things to find what works best for you (and the sexuality of each woman). There will be some adjusting to be done.
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Is it a real course? Is it helpful?
When I look at a course, the first thing I’ll think about is whether or not they have one or more of the following proofs to back up what they say the results will be: A) Is there good science behind it? B) Have I tried it out and confirmed that it works? C) Does it match what I’ve seen and what our other editors have seen? (That is, I’ve seen something like this work before).
In the case of this course, a lot of science is used. A lot of neuroscience is involved, including myelin, neurons, and how people learn, as well as the dopamine reward-motivation mechanism, mirror neurons, and emotional transference.
I’ve seen a lot of this course already. I’ve also had work done for me before. I had picked up many of the same techniques or ideas that Lawrence had because I had studied and looked into some of the same areas that he had worked in.
A lot of this course is also new to me, but I think it will work within the limits of what I know to be true. It fits with what I’ve learned about how women and men are sexually attracted to each other and what that means. I’ll try out the new parts for myself and update this review if I find anything that doesn’t work.
In short, this is the point. This product stands out because it has a lot of new ideas and doesn’t just repeat information that can be found elsewhere.
Will You Find This Course’s Advice Somewhere Else?
This is a unique course because Lawrence Lanoff has studied and worked in many different areas. Innovation often comes from combining different ideas, which is what Lanoff has done here by combining neuroscience, NLP, hypnosis, and his experience as a director and writer (storytelling, movie, and writing techniques).
Since Sex God Method, the best “Mental Game of Sex” course at the time, was taken off the market a few years ago, there has been a bit of a hole to fill. I haven’t had a really good option for guys who have come to us wanting to expand and develop their sexuality, improve sex with women on a mental level, and use sex psychology. This course covers a lot of what men need to know to improve their sex lives and sexual connections with women. It fills the gap in knowledge about the psychology of sex.
There are, however, parts of some courses that are the same. Some of the ideas and maybe even some of the methods will be familiar to you if you’ve taken any of the following courses, though it won’t be much of the course: The Desire System by David Tian, all of Ross Jeffries’ Speed Seduction courses, and some of David Shade’s courses.
How hard is it to use The Language of Lust to your advantage?
This course has big goals for getting you to change your ways of thinking and acting. These include rewiring your brain, changing how you relate to women, and getting you to put all of this into action and change how you talk to women.
So, this course was never going to be the easiest to follow. But Lanoff has done a great job making it as simple as possible.
In fact, Lanoff’s experience as a teacher and mentor comes through very clearly in this course. When making these courses, the hardest thing is always to make something easy to use and actually use in the real world.
In the main training, a lot of care is taken to explain things in ways that anyone can understand by using stories and comparisons. Then, and this is more important, there is a lot of focus on:
Lots of word-for-word examples of what to say and how conversations should go.
At the end of each module, you are given clear steps (1, 2, 3, 4, etc.) that make it easy to start practicing right away.
If you don’t want to spend an hour listening to or watching each module’s training, there is a Quick Start training that basically summarizes all the other trainings into action steps.
Tip: If you want to study this course quickly, watch the Quick Start video for each module first, then go out and practice it. If you get stuck, you can come back and study it in more depth. Anyway, I think everyone should watch the whole course, just like I did, but I understand that not everyone will want to take the time.
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Study Confusion: Trainings Inside Modules Are Not Organized
When I first went to the site for members, I didn’t know where to start. There are many modules, and each one has four or five parts, but there is no numbering or clear “start at the top and work your way down” system. A few of the guys taking the course said they had the same trouble figuring out where to start and how to watch or listen to the parts of the modules.
I ended up watching the Quick Start videos first, which are usually at the bottom of the module page. Then I went to the top of the page and went through each training from top to bottom. It seemed like that was the right order.
Who Does This Work Well For? Who doesn’t need to buy this?
Without a doubt, this is the best “Mental Game of Sex” course ever made. It’s perfect for men who haven’t fully developed their sexuality, confidence in their sexuality, or communication skills. In other words, it will help a lot if you tend to feel shy, nervous about sex, or unhappy with your sexual experiences.
If you haven’t been able to talk dirty with women before or don’t feel comfortable doing so, this book is a game-changer. I don’t think there’s anything else to learn besides what you’ll learn in this course.
The course is not specifically for men who are in relationships or who are single. But men who are in relationships or at least see women regularly (e.g., as friends with benefits) will get more out of this course and be able to use it to its full potential. A lot of the information in the book works best in long-term relationships, where you have time to get to know a woman and build a unique sexual connection with her.
This is a must-buy for guys who want to be the most attractive versions of themselves and are happy with their sexual life and relationships. I’m going to take a lot of it with me, for sure.
But, like most courses, this one is not for everyone. I wouldn’t suggest you buy this if you can’t hold a conversation with a woman or get her interested in you right away.
This means you need to work on your basic conversation and attraction skills (and maybe even your appearance) before you can use this course to its full potential. The best ways to learn these basics are through the courses Conversation Escalation and Say Hello and 51 Handsome Guy Secrets.
If you don’t want to develop your sexuality, this won’t work for you either. In other words, if you don’t want to use the course to work through and get rid of your sexual inhibitions and anxiety, as well as explore and develop your sexuality, that’s an important part of it working. So in that case, it won’t work for you.
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Does The Language of Lust Live Up to the Video/ Marketing?
The Language of Lust’s music video makes some big claims. If you haven’t seen it or need a refresher, I’ll list them below, and then I’ll tell you what really happened. How things are really going.
The Big Assurances
With which women does it work? It can make any woman crazy about you in a sexual way.
What will change in your life? You should sleep with at least three women a week.
How easy is it to use? How hard does it have to be? It only takes a few words, and the results happen on their own.
The Reality
With which women does it work? Nothing works with all women and all situations, and The Language of Lust is no exception. But if you put what you learn in the course into practice, women will become sexually obsessed with you. It does work, and you have a good chance of getting what you want from it.
What will change in your life? It’s possible to sleep with three different women every week, and I’ve done it and so has Lanoff (Note: He talked about this in my interview with him here). You might be able to do that after taking the course, but it’s not a given and depends on a lot of things. The most important thing is how much free time you have. Most people will not have the time to do that because they have jobs, careers, etc.
How easy is it to use? How hard does it have to be? To get this course to help you, you have to put in the work. To develop your sexuality, you have to do the exercises at home, which takes time. You also have to put in the time to practice the practical examples and how to talk to women from the system.
So the big promises don’t exactly match up with what’s going on.
On the plus side, the course really does work to make women sexually obsessed with you by A) making you a top 1% sexual man (most men will never develop their sexuality to the level asked of you in this course) and B) teaching you how to communicate with women on a sexual level (both in and out of bed).
On the downside, the course makes too many promises about how many women it works with, how many women you’ll sleep with, and how much work you have to do to make the system work for you.
The Good: Best “mental game of sex” course (sex is 80% mental), will set you apart from other men, natural skills and self-development, highly practical, well-coached/mentored.
The Bad: The course sections aren’t very well organized on the membership site, and some men might find it too much of a leap in terms of sexuality. There are also no live demos with women.
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Bottom Line: It’s a no-brainer to get this (it’s only $47) if you want to be more attractive and have more fun in bed (and getting the most out of sexual experiences and relationships).
Men who are not ready for the course are the only ones who can’t take it. 1) People who can’t talk to women or make them feel attracted, and 2) People who don’t want to develop their sexuality. You need these things for the course to work right for you.
If you go into this course with the idea that you need to get out of your comfort zone and put in some practice and work, it will almost certainly make you more attractive, sexual, and happy. And I’m one of them. I’ve learned a lot from this course, which doesn’t happen to me very often after 15 years of studying and working in this field. Lawrence Lanoff did a great job. This will be a new turning point in men’s sexuality and their journey to become better people.
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